We can often see two or three-year-old children playing in diapers in some European and American film and television works. In this regard, Chinese mothers will definitely shout: "The big children still wear diapers! What do parents eat?" Some Chinese children were sent to the kindergarten in the United States. Parents told the teacher that the child knew that he had a bowel movement when he was one year old. The teacher was shocked and suspected that his parents had abused the child. Yes, in terms of children's educational philosophy and educational methods, there are very obvious differences between China and Western countries, and it is no exception in the baby's defecation training.
Chinese defecation training method: baby early training, mother early liberation
Many childcare experts believe that parents in China have not done enough to train children's independence. However, Xiao Bian feels that in the baby's defecation training, the Chinese father and mother are very attached and can't wait.
1, defecation training should be early
"Early" is the biggest feature of Chinese defecation training. The average family begins to practice bowel movements when the baby is about one year old, and many kindergartens also require the baby to know how to go to the bathroom when he enters the park at the age of 3. The "hard indicator" is pressed down, and Mom and Dad have to step up their training on the baby so as not to affect the baby's admission.
2, training artifacts - open pants
Open trousers, an outstanding invention that has gathered thousands of years of human wisdom, I am afraid it is now unique to China. The appearance of the open trousers is also due to the rigid needs of mom and dad: the baby often wets the trousers, the trousers are not enough to wear! So, although this style of pants is slightly indecent, it is also the parents of 1-3 years old children in China. I love the single product, and the popularity is enduring.
3, put the urine
Chinese parents love to give their children urine, especially those of the older generation. They believe that as long as the parents can get the urine in time, they can help the baby get rid of the diaper, so even if the baby is still asleep in the middle of the night, the parents will pick up the baby and get the urine every three or two hours. There is more positive, when the baby is still in the baby, the parents have begun to give the baby a urine, the name is: let the baby away from the diaper rash.
4. Tightening man-to-man strategy
Defecation training for the baby is a difficult process. In order to prevent the baby from urinating the pants, the mothers should ask the baby to "pour urine" every half hour. But when they get a negative answer, the mothers will be anxious, and then the time interval will be narrowed. Until they think that the baby "should be peeing", they will inadvertently take the baby out of the book, from the pile of toys, or from a group of children to get the urine. Hey, when mom is not easy, it’s not easy for a mother who is training her baby in defecation!
5, urinating anywhere
As a result of excessive urination from urine to normal bowel movements, it frequently appears in public places such as parks and streets. Among them, children aged 2-3 are the most common performers, regardless of gender. The child is able to urinate and defecate, indicating that the child has been able to clearly distinguish the "satisfaction" and has a certain ability to control bowel movements. It must be said that it is also an improvement.
Advantages of Chinese Defecation Training
1. The sooner the baby learns to go to the toilet, the sooner the parents' hands will be liberated. If the baby has physical and psychological conditions for receiving defecation training, then he will learn bowel movements earlier, and mom and dad will be able to get rid of it faster.
2. The sooner the defecation training begins, the more it will help the baby's independent ability. It is natural for a person to have a bowel movement independently. The baby receives this message earlier and no longer relies on diapers and parents, which means that his independence has developed.
3, baby independent defecation is a resource saving. If it rises to the height of the country and the environment, then letting the baby perform defecation training earlier is also a resource saving, which not only saves the money of the father and mother, but also saves the plastic and wood resources used to make the diaper.
Disadvantages of Chinese Defecation Training Method
1. Premature training is harmful to your child's body: First, because the baby's sphincter is immature, premature urinary damage may cause damage to the baby's muscles. Secondly, letting the baby wear open trousers may easily cause infection of the reproductive organs; Frequently, the child is called peeing at night, which seriously affects the child's sleep quality and is detrimental to his physical and intellectual development.
2, the psychological pressure on the child: the child "incidents frequently" (pig pants), some parents will be very anxious, will severely criticize the child, and may even be unable to corporal punishment of the child, which will bring psychologically to the child The pressure will also have an impact on the development of emotional intelligence.
3, improper training can affect the child's intellectual development: if the parents are too urgent when training the child, no matter what the child is doing, interrupt the child arbitrarily, pull the child over to the urine, which will lead to the child's lack of concentration, thus Affect his intellectual development.
4, casual urination has a negative impact on children's moral values: Chinese mothers rarely prepare tools such as toilets when taking children out, children should pee, generally solve the problem on the spot. In the long run, it not only affects the shaping of children's moral values, but also delays the formation of his sense of privacy.
5, too extreme defecation training is also a torment for parents: some parents are very extreme on the baby's defecation training, regardless of location, regardless of location, anytime, anywhere to give the child urine, so parents are also very hard.
Western-style defecation training method: let the children go with the flow, the mother is not in a hurry
The concept of parenting in the West is very particular about “going with natureâ€. They believe that with the increase of age, the baby’s language ability and muscle control ability will develop to a certain extent, and the parents will give the child a little guidance, and the child will quickly Master your own bowel movement skills.
1, defecation training is not anxious
Mothers in Western countries believe that the age at which they are suitable for starting bowel movement training is 2 years old, but even if they are late, they are not in a hurry. They believe that the basic conditions for starting defecation training are: the child can "speak" when he has a desire to go to the toilet, the nerves and muscles have the ability to control bowel movements, and the child can wear pants. These three conditions cannot be satisfied. Premature defecation training not only stumps the child but also ruins the parents.
2, good at using all kinds of auxiliary "equipment"
The child has just begun to receive defecation training, and certainly is not skilled. Western mothers are good at using a variety of auxiliary equipment to help the baby's training. For example, training diapers to remind the baby, want to pee to go to the toilet to solve; with a variety of beautiful children's urinals, toilets, to help the baby more easily solve the problem of toilet.
3, care about the child's psychological needs
Western countries pay attention to democracy, even to a child. If the child has not yet understood and accepted the toilet, the mother will not force the child to learn, and once they start training, the mother will also give them a picture book for the "thought work" of children. Let them like this kind of training emotionally, so that they can learn to go to the toilet more voluntarily.
Advantages of Western Defecation Training
1, the child masters the skill of defecation faster: just as the mother of the Western countries' original intention, let the child master a certain language ability, and the ability to control the muscles have made some progress and then train their own bowel movements, the child can be more technically easier to master. From this perspective, the pressure on the mother will be relatively small.
2, parent-child relationship is closer: parents pay attention to their psychological needs when giving defecation training to the baby, the training process will not bring too much psychological pressure to the baby, ensure the baby's mental health, and can make the parent-child relationship closer .
Disadvantages of Western Defecation Training
1. Children are easy to resist the training: children use diapers for a long time, and they are accustomed to the comfort of diapers. If parents give them improper training during defecation training, they may cause children to resist the training and increase The difficulty of training.
2, bring a heavier economic burden to the family: the baby uses paper diapers for 2 or 3 years, the accumulation of less, the family bears the economic burden is still very heavy, it is reported that in the United States, a child almost wants to spend 2,000 US dollars in diapers.
3. Environmental pollution is more serious: According to relevant data, it takes an average of 30 months for American children to complete toilet training. Plus they do not wear trousers and use diapers before learning to defecate, so they use paper. The diapers reach 5,6 thousand/person and weigh about 2 tons! Not only the resources are expensive, but the discarded diapers are also easy to pollute the soil and water.
[Small series summary] When does the child's bowel movement training begin? What kind of training is used? In fact, each child's growth rate is different and the psychological development is different. Therefore, Xiaobian's point of view is very neutral: whether it is Chinese or Western training method, There is no best, only the most suitable. According to the actual situation of the child, Mom and Dad can integrate the Chinese and Western defecation training methods, take the essence to the dross, and find the training method that is most suitable for the baby's physical and mental development. In a word, it is best to let your children learn well and learn.
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